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ANGELA LAI
the happy girl who lives with no regrets.

She likes to busk in the limelight,
and enjoys capturing attention.
I do not live in the shadow of others
and i HATE to be forgotten.


I do what i say,
And, i say what i feel.


You think you know me?
Think TWICE before u judge.



♥ DISCLAIMER


Here, i do my constant ranting.
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Everything here are purely MY opinions,
and u don't have to agree with me.
If my narcissism scares u,
leave me alone.


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♥ Wednesday, July 23

What is security?

Wikipedia:
Security is the condition of being protected against danger or loss.




However, when a girl feels insecure,

she means. .. .. ..


1. she is not confident in the relationship.

2. she is not confident of U.



1. it may be tt there are too many problems existing in the relationship tt cause her to feel this way, lack of communications/ misunderstandings etc..


2. it may be tt u flirt around too much, she feel tt u may leave her eventually..

or tt u are just plain hopeless and cause too much trouble..

she cant get a sense of security being with u.

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like u may get into some deep shit anytime..
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like u keep making her worry for u..



a GIRLFRIEND is plays the role of a MOTHER and a FRIEND.

she worries for u, care for u and LOVE u,
like the way ur mother does.

she wants the best for u,
like the way ur mother does.

she dont want to see u in trouble,
like the way ur mother feels.

she hope for u to be a good guy, successful and happy,
like the way ur mother wish for.




However, she is ur partner, the one and only person whom will stand by u no matter what happens.

she's like a friend,
she will always be there for u.

she's like a friend,
she can go crazy and play with u.

she is like a friend,
she can lend u a listening ear.

she is like a friend,
she is true to u and
u're most comfortable around her.




its not easy to be a good girlfriend. XDD

u have u be careful not to "over-play" the role of his mum.

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be careful not to nag too much.
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be careful not to scold him and over-control him.
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it hurts to see tt u're getting urself into endless trouble.

it's hard for her to stand by ur side each and everytime ur in deep shit,
its painful for her, to see u so troubled.

its WORSE when she wants to scold u,
but she know she shouldn't, just to make u feel better.

she cant do anything.

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she cant turn the time back and get u out of the shit u've gotten urself into.
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she cant help u.
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she cant change YOU.



but she will ALWAYS be silently stand beside u.

regardless of all the
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disappointment.
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pain from merely seeing how troubled u are.
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but she will never stop worrying and standing by ur side,
regardless of wad trouble u get urself into..




anw, a random note:

I AM NOT FEELING INSECURE ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP.

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not yet..


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