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ANGELA LAI
the happy girl who lives with no regrets.

She likes to busk in the limelight,
and enjoys capturing attention.
I do not live in the shadow of others
and i HATE to be forgotten.


I do what i say,
And, i say what i feel.


You think you know me?
Think TWICE before u judge.



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Everything here are purely MY opinions,
and u don't have to agree with me.
If my narcissism scares u,
leave me alone.


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♥ Thursday, October 2

ABORTION

a term common to most of us.



there are many implications to this easy term,
abortion.



Who are u to take away a life?

you are his/her mum?
MUM. and u are killing him/her.


notice i used him/her,
not IT.


There's a life, a HUMAN LIFE in there;
in that womb.




You have your reasons?

Let me hear it.

-rape victim?
its acceptable.

-premarital child?
maybe..
maybe.. understandable.
after all, you have to accept the consequence,
not just under a cut of the knife can u resolve everything.



after marriage:

-accidental child?
RUBBISH.
so what if u did not want it?
a life is not something to joke around with.

-financial ability?
wells..
one may argue that its worse for the child to suffer.
hah..
so it is fair for us to dictate and decide the child's fate?

-high risk pregnancy?
there is no 100% guarantee of a healthy child,
life is a gamble.
the mum obviously has the right to decide,
both her and the baby's life are at risk.


or maybe, some are just too selfish.

unwilling to give up their happy twosome.

unwilling to sacrifice time and effort in rising a child.

i know its not easy..
is it worth it, is not for me to judge.

im sure the process of growing this tree may be tough,
but meaningful and enriching one.
it is going to need alot of love, concern, care, effort, time, energy, money etc..

im sure the fruit of the tree is tasty.


fine.


im not a mother,
i shouldn't be passing such judgements.



i dont want to feel this way.

im trying to be objective.


but.

emotions are engulfing me.

shocked.
by the sudden news.

disgusted.
by human's selfishness.

angry.
cus it concerns a life.

sad.
cus i cant do a thing.



maybe


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maybe


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maybe abortion should be banned!


i dont know.


im not thinking objectively, logically now.
so dont flame me on my tagboard on this controversial topic.


i need to cool down.


maybe sometimes we need the courage, to go ahead with things.




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shawn shared with me a quote last night.

" god gave me the strength to change what i can,
the courage to accept what i cannot. "


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